I know someone wrote a post about this earlier, and now I am in a similar predicament…
We have a player that raided with us for a while, went a little loopy, /gquit and then came back as a casual, non-raider… he promptly /gquit again hours later, and we were like oh well… because he brought a lot of drama with him. and, frankly we were glad to get rid of it.
Well, fast forward three months, and he wants back in. He just wants to hang out and not actually raid. (We have both casual and raiding players in our guild.) Well, when the officers saw his app it was a unanimous no. A couple of his real life friends are in the guild and they are pretty upset that he wasn’t let back in to the guild, but we just don’t want to deal with the “bad apple” that he used to be.
Apparently he has gotten his life back together and his friends assure me the drama is over, but I just don’t know if it is a risk I am willing to take with my awesomesauce guild! On one hand, I feel like everyone deserves a second chance, but on the other… I kinda feel like he already got his… alas.